The Thousand Cock Stare is a term in the Manosphere referring to the look of a woman who has not only hit the wall but has ridden the cock carousel so much that she has destroyed her ability to pair-bond and be satisfied with any partner for long.
The premise is flawed.
Imagine your mind is a boat on a wide open ocean…
The older you get the more cargo you take on, the bigger that ship gets.
The bigger that ship is the harder it is for it to turn course.
The problem is that the manosphere says that pair bonding can occur after the age of 22 if only she has kept her partner count low.
The flaw in this premise is that if the ship at 30 is an oil tanker
the manosphere believes that at age 22 the ship can still easily right it’s sails
but by that point in a persons experience their ship is the size of a cruise ship,
It’s course is largely set and changing direction is easily and faster than that of the tanker,
But the capacity for pair bonding has already been determined.
is when the Seinfeld began grooming his bride
is largely when romantic and partner experience start to enter a person’s cargo hold
UNDERSTAND I am not advocating grooming or pedophile.
So 18 then so this all legal and well
at this age an adult woman will have had 3 years of experience in relationships and much less baggage.
This isn’t a question of pair-bonding because by and large I don’t think pair-bonding is a given trait. Since many cultures exist just fine without strict pair-bonding relationship and our society at least the working class portion will see it dissolve into either religious based pairs and secular open relations.
This is a matter of learned and repetitive behavior.
If you’ve read the Art of Seduction by Robert Greene,
or your familiar what to do after the honeymoon fades.
Then you should understand that after the initial attraction has faded their are steps to take that reignite lost flames and introduce excitement where and when appropriate. In order to keep things fresh for you and your partner.
It doesn’t matter whether or not a 30 or even 40 something took a good long ride on the cock carousel.
If her life experience is well adjusted to being alone, she will be unable to “pair-bond” just the same.
Because her life and experience consists largely without you and even with 30 more years of a successful marriage, this won’t prevent divorce because as people age and start to fall into routines the some of many experiences are blend into few and their cargo space is reduced.
You know how the days are long but the weeks are short and the years fly by.
The whole time she will remember the many highlights of varied experience from her 20 years before you came and unless you provide equally varied and memorable experiences than you are the one causing jeopardy in your relationship.
The number of cocks doesn’t matter
Its the number of experiences.
I’ll be honest those experiences increase the cost of maintaining a long term relationship, whether or not she was a rider or not. The Honeymoon phase gives you a hormonal boost to meet her cost expenditure. It’s not that you stop giving the same it’s that the hedonistic treadmill will mean that unless you’ve adopted a healthy abuse spiral, then your Honeymoon bonus goes away and now you have to expend more effort. Simply for her to adjust to that effort and demand more.
This isn’t a result of the stare, or the wall. This is just the way it is.
If you want a long term relationship with a single woman. You can’t front load all your effort in the relationship and expect to just coast.
You must intentional go through periods of drought and willful deprive, so that you can spin out of that and back into the romance closer to when you first started.
Pair-bonding, the stare, and the wall
are preached by the divorced casualties and the red pill ragers
to those who start this rabbit hole after their first clash with reality.
In summary read the Art of Seduction by Robert Greene
and understand now more than ever it’s on men to decide when and how long to engage with a partner.
Be informed and
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